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Men
The male role expectation is generally accepted to be that of assuming responsibility for and protecting his loved ones. The "ideal man" is seen as one who will fight to protect his family. However, men have no legal right to oppose a partner’s abortion. This powerlessness takes a toll not only on a man’s self-image, but also on his relationship with his partner. Although the aftermath of abortion is considered mainly to physically and emotionally impact a woman, men experience post-abortion trauma as well.
Men who choose to accept their feelings rather than deny them often describe the abortion experience as bewildering and painful beyond their coping abilities. Many men in this situation report feelings of emptiness, guilt, remorse, and sadness.
This emotional upheaval requires frank, open, sensitive and caring communication. Reconciliation and forgiveness comes from the willingness to know the truth and to tell the truth
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If you or someone you love is suffering from the aftermath of an abortion decision, please contact one of our peer counselors. We care and we want to help you.
